Dating Safety Tips

Last updated Oct 11, 2026

Practical advice for staying safe while chatting online and when you meet a match in person.

Most people you meet on iamU are here for the same reason you are. These habits help keep it that way.

While chatting

  • Protect your personal information. Don't share your home address, workplace, financial details or passwords.
  • Never send money. No matter how convincing the story, never send money, gift cards or crypto to someone you met online.
  • Stay on iamU until you feel comfortable. Scammers often push to move to another app quickly.
  • Video call first. A quick call on iamU helps confirm the person is who they say they are.
  • Report suspicious behaviour. Use Report on any profile or message that feels wrong.

Meeting in person

  1. Meet in a busy public place, such as a café or restaurant, and stay there for the first date.
  2. Tell a friend or family member where you are going, who you're meeting and when you expect to be back. You can add trusted contacts in Settings.
  3. Arrange your own transport to and from the date.
  4. Keep your phone charged and with you.
  5. Stay in control of your drinks and don't leave them unattended.
  6. Trust your instincts. You can leave at any time, for any reason.

If something goes wrong

  • If you're in immediate danger, contact your local emergency services.
  • Report the member on iamU so our safety team can act.
  • Block anyone who makes you uncomfortable. They will no longer be able to see or contact you.

Questions about safety? Contact [email protected].